How to Know Someone Wants You Without Reading Their Mind

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Sometimes it takes a little more effort to suss out what the person you are attracted to is thinking. We're not mind readers, so how can we tell if the hottie you have your eyes on is feeling the same about you?

A good method of flirting with a sexy someone is to show them that you are interested through your body language. Sometimes, when you don't have the courage to speak, body language can say it all.

So while I can't tell you the secrets to mind reading, I can tell you a few body language tips to look out for or even use yourself to attract that hottie.

Eye Contact

If someone who is sexually attracted to you cannot stop themselves from staring at you, that can be a huge sign. A person's eyes are their strongest tool when communicating sexual desires. Their eyes will constantly follow you and the outlines of your body. They may be glancing down at your chest or behind because they can't help but imagine you in their bedroom.


Giving someone a smile repeatedly is a strong sign of sexual attraction. Someone who is smiling at you is probably giving you signs that they want their mouth on yours. Language is such an important part of smiling. If they are talking while smiling, that means that they are enjoying your conversation and comfortable in your presence.

Facing You

A major sign of their need and sexual attraction once again lies in positive body language. If their body is pointing towards you while you talk and interact, that is a sign that they are interested in you. Their feet, hands, and eyes should all be pointing toward you if they are trying to express that they are sexually attracted.

Wandering Hands

If their hands seem to wander, but barely miss the mark, that is a sure sign that they want to get their hands fully on you when the time is right. They may be so sexually attracted to you that they can barely keep their hands off you and want you in the bedroom asap.

They Stay Near Your Body

This may sound weird, but it is definitely a true statement. If someone is constantly hovering around you, it may be because they want your body. Their sexual language is being expressed with their proximity and their body. They are so attracted to you they cannot physically get themselves away.

What body language signs do you use to show someone that you are attracted to them? Let us know in the comments below.

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